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NJConsiderME 38 / M
"Read my profile please and thank you for your consideration"
Deptford, New Jersey, United States
 
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Member Since: December 8, 2012

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Introduction
I have had a few profiles here and there over the years and this is my last one. This might come off angry, but I am not at all. Let me start off by saying, you might know me. We might have had sex together. We might have talked about fantasies and desires. AFF has a bad . Sometimes for the wrong reas. If you are a couple: It is funny how many bi men that are married are on here. If you are a woman reading this, I would say 50% of the husbands on here are bi. Maybe your's too. Many men cheat on their wives or would cheat if they can find the right opportunity. You women should be more open with your minds. Being a male and bi is not all that bad. Most bi males just want to suck a cock. How can you tell if your man is bi? If he enjoys seeing you with other men. He might be bi. I would say 75% of the time, he is bi. Most of these men need to hide it, because they are scared to admit it and how their wife or others will treat or think of them. It is not fair that you (she) can be bi, but it is sooooo bad if he is too. Be fair women. You are only making men go out and cheat, go to dirty ass adult book stores or other means of fulfilling their desires. Open your mind. I have seen and talked with many married men from all walks of life that want to suck a cock. Most of them would love to suck a cock with you. Talk to your man and try being honest with each other and have a safe sexual swinger relationship. Married bi men: You all suck. Most of you are just plain scared to bring it up in order to save face. Stop cheating. You are going to end up with something you don't want to give your wife. You should not have to give up what you want either. If she is allowed to be bi, stand up for yourself and be brave and tell her you want to try bi too. Truth be told, many women are into it. Even after they did not think they would be and low and behold they see a guy suck a guy and they get wetter. Regular couples: Don't give me the bullshit that you do not want to do mfm. 95% of you are lying. I have been with soooo many couples that say they are not into mfm. If the mood strikes or just horny, you know damn well it is hard to find a couple when you want them and impossible to find a single female. Men are always around and find a good one (like me lol) 95% of you have done it or she wants it and he is selfish and wants to get his so she can't have it. RULE #1 OF SWINGING: DON'T BE SELFISH! So men will do fmf, but not mfm. F$$K you selfish per. As for the women who say they are only swinging to be with other couples (full swap) or females, because they have enough dick in their life: Yeah right. 5% of you are really into this for just the woman. There is a rea we call single women unicorns. I know there are a million single men and we are all a dime a dozen, but that is just not true. I have been with enough couples to tell you this is not true. I have been invited back many times, because this is not true. Single men usually suck. Single men are selfish and forget why they are there. Single men think totally wrong 99.999%. Some men talk a great game and then can't perform. I have heard many stories of how single men try to contact the wife to meet on their own or leave her husband or boyfriend or show up uninvited or other nonsense. I hate these type of single men, because they kill it for the true good single men who are swingers. Most single men on here are married and cheating or just horny and have no idea what swinging and playing with a couple is all about. Everything I say about myself is 100% true. I have played with straight and bi and bi curious couples. I am open and very experienced. I am clean, respectful and discreet. I have played with couples when their s or other family members are home or live in an apartment or have noisy neighbors. I am a regular looking guy. I stay hard as long as needed. I follow the ground rules. I understand I am part of a couple's fun. It is not about me. It is all about her and what she wants (sometimes him he he). If you want to try something, chances are I have done it and can help you try it. I am casual. I am not going to show up where ever and jump on her. If you are a straight couple, I am not going to touch him if he is not into it. But FYI in order to do some positions, you should be a bit bi. If you are going to do dp or dv, your legs and cocks are touching. That is kinda bi. If she likes sucking two cocks at the same time and your cocks touch, that is kinda bi. Just an FYI. I don't mind if he watches, but more fun when he joins in. I can follow or lead. I am experienced in many types of scenes. We all are just here for fun, so let's have fun. This is not about hurting feelings or doing something stupid. Safe (condoms) sex is always a must. It is crazy how many couples want bareback or cream pies. FYI If he likes to eat you after a cream pie (his or another) he is bi. You don't know me and I don't know you. I am clean and going to stay that way. I wear condoms. I can cum on her, but never in her (well, her mouth if she likes that lol) Be smart people, safe sex with everyone even if you have been with them several times. Let me tell you, I know for a fact I can play the 6 degrees of fucking with almost anyone on here and we have a connection of sex. Most couples will not admit they have been or into single men, but I laugh when I see you have played with people I have played with and then go and tell me lies or think weird stuff. Single men on here: Just go away if you can't talk like a human. People here are not all s and sluts for you to fuck. Most people are not turned on by your cock shots. Being a swinger is not about you getting laid. If you are married and cheating, just say so, but I would open up to your wife and do something about it. What you are doing is just a losing deal here. So many married men on here and their wife has no idea. It is not totally your fault, but I would suggest you rekindle your sex life with your wife, before you put all this time and effort into finding women here. If you are young and fit and perfect, go find a girlfriend. It is just not fair to the rest of us normal older folk. lol But seriously, single men need to get their shit straight and wise up. I teach. lol Single Fems: You poor creatures. You are like hunted deer. A new fem comes on here and the mob pounces on you. One thing though, if you are married and even if you are playing alone, make a couple profile not a single fem. It just pisses everyone off when we find out the truth. Black men: Black men are THE worst swingers EVER. Why? This is not a racist thing. Black men are selfish. They will NEVER let a man have sex with their woman unless he is getting your woman. I know there are lots of white women that crave that BBC and good for all, but if you are black and part of a couple, stop being so selfish. Swinging is about the woman and I know for a fact your woman wants two cocks at once. Black men with a white wife / gf are the worst. It is as if she has sex with a white man, she is going to leave you. LOL That is not going to happen. Love does not work that way. Man up and let your woman have some fun too. I love to chat even if we never meet. Chances are we have chat before. I know a lot about this and don't try to debate me saying "We are not like that" "MY man is straight and likes to see me get fucked" and all that other BS. I said most or many, not all. I think if we all were a lot more honest we would all have more fun.

My Ideal Person OH yeah: "We don't meet people if they do not have a pictures on here." Bullshit. Most of you who say that it is a matter or time and tide. I have met many, many couples and I have never NEVER ever had a pic on this site. I have also NEVER had a cert. I don't want them and you should not do them for anyone. I have pics and I like to chat first before I give them up. I have a nice body and a nice cock. Trust me. When the time is right, you can see me. Chances are you have seen me already. I have chat with like 50% of the "couples" on this site and most of you lie depending on who you think you are talking to. Honestly people, just be honest with me.

Information
  • 38 / male
  • Deptford, New Jersey, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: February 1, 1986
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English